“I’m not sure I can deal with two wives,” I said,
“Oh come on,” my friends said, “Give him a chance, he seems like a nice guy.”
“He’s in the middle of a divorce,” I said.
“Oh come on,” my friends said, “Not everyone is your ex…”
These were HUGE red flags to me. And yet – being raised as I was from parents who made me feel like I was less valuable than livestock (chickens, ducks, cows) – I decided my friends must know better than I did, and continued with red-flag-relationships, right into disaster and separation.
So Part 1 of this lesson is: DO NOT LET FRIENDS NOR FAMILY CONVINCE YOU TO DATE SOMEONE THAT YOU ALREADY BELIEVE IS A RED FLAG.
What do YOU think?? Has this happened to you before? What did you do? How did you handle it?