“We have two choices in life: We can cower when someone scares us, or we can meet them at the door with a bat.” -1YearOfSingle I’m not much for buying into the victim role anymore. I give myself all of 30 minutes to be freaked out at stalkers and whatnot, then get ready for the long hall. I played soccer in school. At one game, a mega-giant girl and I were head to head chasing down the ball. I could tell she was someone who let her size intimidate other people. And yet before the game was over, she was on the ground and I had possession. It’s hard to beat someone who refuses to be scared.